I wish I believed in fate. I wish that I could go to sleep at night literally believing that everything that was supposed to happen to me was going to happen. I wish that everything you knew in your heart was right, actually unfolded I the way you imagined. I wish my brain would allow such thoughts.
But it doesn’t, that’s not to say I’m a pessimist, I like to call myself a “realist.” I try to take everything for what it is and assess it accordingly.
I don’t live in an “everything happens for a reason” type of world. Everything happens for a reason? How can that be? Millions of people were slaughtered in the Holocaust for a reason? What’s the reason? We captured people and brought them to our country to work for free? What’s the reason for that if you are one of the people being forced to work?
No, everything does not happen for a reason, please people don’t be narcissistic to the extent that you think the “universe” or some other factor actually has anything to do with your life.
You think God, or whatever you believe in really gives a flying fuck if Johnny asks you to the prom? You think it’s a major concern of an all-powerful being of whether or not Billy will go down on you?
Listen, nobody cares about your life but you, seriously when it comes down to it, every one in some form or another is doing everything to eventually benefit themselves. I’m not saying there are no selfless acts, but there isn’t some focus group deciding what’s going to happen next in your awesome life! It’s just you.
I guess what I’m trying to say is live your life the way you want. Fate is not coming to save you, tomorrow is not going to be the day where all your dreams come true, the world isn’t shitting on you for a reason, it’s just called life. Life sucks, the things you enjoy are taken away or prohibited, your mind is raped by a retard driven society, you’re mind is engulfed with each and every mindless fucks opinion as if anyone cares what is being said. You don’t care, you already have your own views and opinions instilled in you and for that to change, it better be a pretty fucking convincing argument.
This is not to sound like a depressed cry for help or a fuck the world call to arms. It’s a simple assertion that YOU control your life…not fate. Bad things happen because the world is filled with lots of bad people, or people that want to be good but are too ignorant to realize how irrelevant they are.
You control your life, do what makes you happy…TODAY. If you try to tailor your life to fit anyone’s agenda but your own, you will end up in despair.
Happiness is what matters, find the people that make you happy and surround yourself, find out what drives you to be successful and commit too it, figure out the things in life that make time stand still, until you realize you’ve spent the whole day doing it.
Fate does not exist, everything does not happen for a reason. You create fate and the only reason anything happens is because of you.
Love to all that read.